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Recently, a mom in our drop-in program shared a bedtime challenge that many families experience. Her 13-month-old toddler would sometimes go to bed around 9 p.m., appear to fall asleep easily, and then wake up about 30 minutes later completely alert and ready to play. Interestingly, she noticed that if she took him for a short drive in the car, he would often fall back asleep within just a few minutes. Many parents assume that once a child falls asleep, they should remain asleep for several hours. So when a toddler wakes shortly after bedtime, it can feel confusing, frustrating, and even a little mysterious. This led to an important question: Why would a child who seems so tired wake up again so quickly? There is no single answer. Sleep is complex, and bedtime wake-ups can happen for many different reasons. However, understanding sleep cycles and recognising signs of overtiredness may help explain part of the puzzle. Understanding Sleep Cycles: Why Some Children Wake After 30–60 Minute...

  Just last week during our morning drop-in program, I noticed a mom quietly sitting beside her twenty-month-old son near the block area. While the other toddlers moved busily around the room, her little boy sat carefully lining up toy cars in long rows across the carpet. A few minutes later, he stood up and briefly walked on his tiptoes as he carried the cars to another corner. The mom looked down at her phone, then back at her child with visible worry in her eyes. Finally, she softly asked me, “Do you think this means autism?” Questions like this come up surprisingly often in family support programs and toddler play environments. Many parents spend late nights searching online after noticing a behaviour that feels unfamiliar or unexpected. Sometimes a friend, relative, or social media post casually describes a behaviour as a "red flag," leaving families overwhelmed with fear and uncertainty. The truth is that child development is incredibly complex. Some behaviours that app...

  The weather is finally getting warmer here in Toronto, and our outdoor drop-in program has slowly started filling with the sounds of splashing water, excited giggles, and soaking wet little shoes. One of my favourite moments during summer programs is watching children who feel shy indoors suddenly open up around water play. Sometimes a toddler who barely speaks during circle time will happily spend twenty minutes pouring water from one cup to another while smiling proudly at their parent nearby. One morning, while rain clouds lingered overhead, we set up a simple outdoor water station with a shallow bin, a few measuring cups, funnels, and some floating toys. Within minutes, children gathered around. One toddler spent the entire morning pouring water back and forth between containers. Another carefully tested which objects would float. A preschooler proudly announced that he was making soup for everyone using leaves, flowers, and water. What looked like simple play was actually ri...

  Rain tapped softly against the windows of our drop-in program one morning while several toddlers watched puddles form outside. With outdoor play no longer an option, we began setting out a few simple indoor materials. On one table, I placed a muffin tin, a basket of large buttons, several pinecones, and a handful of colourful loose parts. Within minutes, children gathered around. One toddler carefully moved items from cup to cup. Another sorted objects by colour. A preschooler announced that the muffin tin had become a bakery and immediately began serving pretend cupcakes to everyone nearby. What looked like a simple kitchen item quickly became a sensory activity, a math invitation, and a dramatic play centre all at once. Moments like these remind us that meaningful play does not always require expensive toys or elaborate setups. Sometimes the most engaging learning experiences come from ordinary household materials already sitting inside a kitchen cupboard. One simple item we of...

“Hi there! Nice to meet you,” I said with my warmest smile as I bent down to greet a little two-year-old visiting our drop-in program for the very first time with his mom. He took one look at me, planted his feet firmly on the floor, and shouted a loud and confident, “NO!” Over the next hour, that tiny word became his favourite response. Would he like to try the sensory bin? “No!” Ready for a snack? “No!” Want to roll the ball? “No!” His mom looked completely exhausted and quietly whispered, “He says no to everything lately.” Many parents experience this stage during the toddler years. While it can feel frustrating and emotionally draining, this strong resistance is often a very common and developmentally appropriate part of toddler development. Behind that determined little “no” is usually a child beginning to discover independence, personal preferences, and emotional boundaries. The “No” Phase: Discovering Independence and Personal Agency During infancy, children gradually begin deve...

Recently, a toddler arrived at our centre holding a small plastic spoon tightly in his hand. At first, I simply glanced at it with curiosity, but his mom noticed me looking and gave a slightly embarrassed smile. "Lately, he carries this spoon everywhere," she explained. "Every single day." The moment she said that, I immediately laughed and shared my own memory. When my own children were younger, there was always a favourite object travelling around the house with them too, especially tiny toy cars that somehow needed to come everywhere with us. If you work with toddlers or live with one, you quickly realize how incredibly common this phase can be. Many parents simply see this behaviour as cute or funny, and honestly, sometimes it absolutely is. Toddlers marching proudly through the house carrying random "treasures" can be surprisingly adorable. Popular culture has long reflected this behaviour, with characters such as Linus from Peanuts famously carrying...

Last week during one of our busy drop-in programs, a newly enrolled child walked confidently into the playroom and immediately began trying to direct everything around them. If music was playing in the background, the child strongly insisted that it be changed right away. If another child was using a favourite toy, they would quickly walk over and take it without hesitation, seemingly unbothered by the other child’s frustration. Even simple classroom routines became difficult if things did not happen exactly the way this child expected. As educators, these situations can feel exhausting at times, especially in busy social environments where many children are learning to cooperate together. During a conversation with the parents, they gently shared that the family had recently welcomed a new four-month-old baby at home while also adjusting to a new neighbourhood and a new program environment. Moments like this are important reminders that behaviour is often far more complex than simply ...

  One thing I hear very often around toddlers is adults saying, “You need to share.” At our centre, many loving parents naturally encourage sharing because they want children to learn kindness and empathy early. However, for very young children, sharing can actually feel incredibly difficult and emotionally overwhelming. Because of this, in early childhood programs, we often focus more on teaching turn-taking rather than expecting immediate sharing. Predictable turn-taking helps young children feel safe while gradually building the emotional skills needed for future sharing. One day during our transition to circle time, I mentioned to a parent that we often sing little “5 Minutes Left” transition songs to help children prepare for changes. She smiled and told me that at home, she had started singing her own playful version: "5 minutes left to share!" Honestly, I loved that idea. It reminded me that learning to share is not something children master overnight. It is a long dev...

Recently, while scrolling through TikTok after a long day at the centre, I kept noticing the same surprising trend appearing again and again. A toddler would be in the middle of a huge tantrum, crying hard, screaming, and completely overwhelmed. Then suddenly, the parent would look toward an empty doorway and say something like: “Jessica? Where are you?” Almost instantly, the child would pause, stop crying for a moment, and look around in confusion. They seemed determined to figure out who Jessica was and where she had suddenly appeared from. At first glance, the whole thing looks almost magical. Many parents online are calling it the “Jessica tantrum hack,” while others are asking a very fair question: Is this actually helpful, or is it just another internet trick? In our early childhood program, we often use a gentler version of the same idea through real sensory tools such as bubbles, music, movement, or noticing something interesting in the environment. Just last week, a tired two-...